How to avoid friend zone and how to loved by someone

Everyone wants to be loved by someone they love. what actually love is? In 74.27% of cases, love is seeking someone's attention to you.  we all want to be liked by them. So we try to care for them. And give your attention to her. But you actually want attention from them. because  Everyone wants to be loved by someone they love. like and love is two different things. we like many people. But we love someone special. We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person doesn't care at all.

If you want to be loved you have to balance between the care and don't care. When you love someone you give your all attention to them. And attention is like a one-way road. If it is going through that road all the time it will not get space to return back. So if you want to be loved by someone. sometimes you have to stop caring. If you really can't stop caring. you at least have to try to stop showing that you care. If you text or call her all the time. how can they miss you? How can they think about you? If the other person is not missing you, or not thinking about you. The other person will take you as a friend. And this is the main reason that most of the people are friend zoned. You don't think that only boys are friend zoned. Girls are friend zoned too. If the other is ignoring you for giving extra attention. It is not the other person's fault. It is human nature. If anyone is giving you extra attention, you can't give them attention. So change your concept. If you give so much attention, you will get back nothing of it.